Wow, that was incredibly queerphobic of you. Bold of you to assume I think of the Fae as presented by Disney. I'm more of a fan of the Dresden Files series by Jim Butcher - far more Grimm's Brothers. I particularly love the character of the Leanansidhe, who is especially vicious, but there's a reason for it. The novels only include a Summer Court and Winter Court, though I'd put myself among the Wyldfae associated with autumn.
There is a lot of lore out there, and who are you to tell me to "do more research?" Heck, if there's something to the folklore, who says I'm not actually a Changeling?